Sunday, March 31, 2019

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Feeling Deflated

Today, I am having a man who is here on a work permit as a system's developer (computer), look at my suite. The current tenant has everything on the driveway ready to be loaded into a truck. I can't believe how quickly this man has deteriorated by drinking alcohol once again. There is no point in having a good paying job if you will spend it on alcohol. It is one of those days I can't wait to have end. My heart is racing because this tenant has befriended my other tenant and now she feels threatened in some ways. She reached out and made food for him, and helped him, and now he is being rude, and continues to be little us in her face. She promised herself that she would never shack up with a man who smoked or drank. I can see why. The domination of the addiction makes a person loose sight of what is truth. I feel so bad. I wish we did not have tenants. I would love a peaceable life, without the drama. However, the necessity to make ends meet especially when there is disabilities in the household makes one do the unconventional, and often the uncomfortable. We may even have to hold back some of his damage deposit if he doesn't leave the place as he found it  when he moved in. We may have to change the locks as well. Feeling deflated today.

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Friday, March 29, 2019

"Dog Suicide Bridge"


‘Dog Suicide Bridge’: Why do so many pets keep leaping into a Scottish gorge?

'After 11 years of research, I'm convinced it's a ghost that is behind all of this'



A person walks their dog on Overtoun Bridge in Dumbarton, Scotland on June 30, 2018.Sophie Gerrard/The New York Times

DUMBARTON, Scotland — “I was sure she was dead,” Lottie Mackinnon said quietly.
Mackinnon was sitting huddled in the corner of a cafe with her two children, sipping hot chocolate as she described the day three years ago when she was walking with her Border collie, Bonnie, over the Overtoun Bridge in Dumbarton, Scotland.
“Something overcame Bonnie as soon as we approached the bridge,” Mackinnon said. “At first she froze, but then she became possessed by a strange energy and ran and jumped right off the parapet.”
A bewitched dog lured to leap off a bridge by a malevolent force? It sounds like a preposterous scene straight from an old “Twilight Zone” episode.
But Mackinnon’s dog is one of hundreds that Scots insist have suddenly been compelled to throw themselves off the gothic stone structure since the 1950s. Many have ended up dead on the jagged rocks in the deep valley bed below.
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Residents of Dumbarton, which is northwest of Glasgow, began calling Overtoun, a century-old bridge that stretches across a 50-foot gorge, the “dog suicide bridge.”
Mackinnon, who grew up in the neighbouring village of Milton, winced at the memory of scurrying down the gorge through the trees and the bushes in a desperate hunt for Bonnie. But when she approached the dog’s body, Bonnie started to whimper and eventually tried to stand up.

A wide view of the Overtoun Bridge. Sophie Gerrard/The New York Times
“It was a miracle that she survived,” she said.
In a land rife with superstitions, myths and monsters — Scotland is the land of the Loch Ness legend, after all — the bridge has been at the centre of an enduring mystery. Why do so many dogs jump?
Local researchers estimate more than 300 have sailed off the bridge; tabloid reports say it’s 600. At least 50 dogs are said to have died.
Some say there are rational explanations involving the terrain and the scents of mammals in the gorge that may drive the dogs into a frenzy.
Other explanations take on a more paranormal tone.
The bridge’s location, hushed, lush and sometimes still, fits the description of what the pagan Celts called a “thin place,” a mesmerizing spot where heaven and earth overlap.
“People in Dumbarton are very superstitious,” said Alastair Dutton, a local taxi driver. “We grew up playing in the Overtoun grounds, and we believe in ghosts here because we’ve all seen or felt spirits up here.”
The leaps inspired an episode of the American TV series “The Unexplained Files.” An entire book is dedicated to exploring the phenomenon.
But despite all this attention, the mystery lives on, unsolved.
From a distance, its seems as if the ornate Victorian bridge, built in 1895, is a mere extension of the driveway of an adjoining 19th-century manor built in Dumbarton by a wealthy industrialist, James White.

An area under the Overtoun Bridge in Dumbarton, Scotland, June 30, 2018. Sophie Gerrard/The New York Times
Closer still, one can make out the bridge’s three archways spanning a small river, the Overtoun Burn. Standing in the middle on the bridge’s blackened granite parapets, it is easy to forget the space beneath falls away into the deep gorge.
In the manor nearby, the current tenant, Bob Hill, said he and his wife had seen several dogs suddenly dive off the bridge since they moved into the property, now called Overtoun House, more than 17 years ago.
But Hill, a pastor from Texas who runs a local center for women in crisis, had an earthbound explanation: The smell of small animals scurrying around in the gorge below the bridge drives the dogs into a frenzy, then they break free of leashes — if they’re on any — and jump.
“The dogs catch the scent of mink, pine martens or some other mammal, and then they will jump up on the wall of the bridge,” Hill said. “And because it’s tapered, they will just topple over.”
Still, he allowed, the Overtoun grounds are “more spiritual than other parts.”
“Scotland is kind of a place where there is a lot of the supernatural, and it is very common in people’s lives,” he added.
Paul Owens, a teacher of religion and philosophy in Glasgow, grew up in a town close to the bridge and recently published a book about the mystery. When it comes to an explanation for the leaping dogs, he is firmly in the supernatural camp.
“After 11 years of research, I’m convinced it’s a ghost that is behind all of this,” he declared, while sitting outside a pub on a drizzly day in Glasgow.
Owens’ theory is popular among some local residents, who grew up hearing stories about the “White Lady of Overtoun,” also known as the grieving widow of John White, James’ son.
“The lady lived alone in grief for more than 30 years after her husband died in 1908,” said Marion Murray, a Dumbarton resident. “Her ghost has been lurking around here ever since. She’s been sighted in windows and walking around the grounds.”

Paul Owens in Dumbarton, Scotland, June 30, 2018. Sophie Gerrard/The New York Times
In 2010, animal behaviourist David Sands investigated the phenomenon and ruled out the possibility that the animals were deliberately killing themselves.
His experiments at the bridge found that dogs — especially long-nosed breeds — were drawn to the scent of mammals below. Sands theorized that the dogs’ limited perspective, their ignorance that the path changes from level ground to a bridge spanning a deep gorge and the smells wafting through the air probably enticed the dogs to jump.
But even he acknowledged that the bridge has a “strange feeling.”
Some residents found his theory plausible, but many here still take the position that the leaps are inexplicable. They question why the phenomenon does not occur at the same rate at other bridges in Britain where mammals roam below.
“Other bridges don’t have troubled spirits lurking about,” Mackinnon insisted grimly.
Despite the macabre reputation, the Overtoun grounds remain a popular dog-walking area, and many of the animals are off leash.
“Many people don’t believe in the story until they see it for themselves, and even then they don’t think it will happen to them,” said Hill, the pastor.
One day, Emma Dunlop, who said she had heard “the horror stories,” took her Labrador retriever, Ginger, for a walk to Overtoun anyway.
She did not let him out of her station wagon until he was on a leash.
“He’s never tried to jump,” she said, “but sometimes he freezes or hesitates when he gets on the bridge, so I’m always careful.”
Ginger jumped from the car, raced around his owner and headed straight toward Overtoun Bridge, crossing it without any hesitation.
But then Ginger froze, looking back intently at something on the bridge, which appeared empty to human eyes.
“Aye, there she is — there’s the White Lady,” Dunlop said with a laugh, suggesting Ginger had seen the bridge’s ghost.
Then the pair continued their walk.

The Ancient ways suicide continues to haunt us


The ancient ways suicide continues to haunt us


Father of Sandy Hook victim dies from apparent suicide

Father of Sandy Hook victim dies from apparent suicide 03:28
David J. Morris is an English professor at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas and the author of "The Evil Hours: A Biography of Post-traumatic Stress Disorder" (Mariner Books, 2016). The views expressed here are the author's. View more opinion on CNN.
(CNN)On Monday, Jeremy Richman, 49, father of one of the Sandy Hook school shooting victims, apparently took his own life in his Newton, Connecticut, office. The third in a recent spate of suicides connected to school massacres, Richman's death is doubly horrific because since his daughter's death, he had devoted his life to preventing tragedies like Sandy Hook through a foundation he founded and named after her.
David J. Morris
Few subjects defeat the scientific mind like the subject of suicide. Because researchers cannot interview the dead, we can never really know why someone takes this path. It confounds researchers, defies typical human logic and delivers laser-focused pain to a victim's friends and family. And it's hard to see any sign of progress. According to 2016 data from the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, suicide is now the second-leading cause of death among people between the ages of 10 and 34 and the fourth leading cause of death among people between 35 and 54. In the United States, a country obsessed with gun violence and murder, there were twice as many suicides as homicides.
On a certain level, understanding suicide is more of a spiritual question than a medical one. As Albert Camus put it in "The Myth of Sisyphus," "Judging whether life is or is not worth living amounts to answering the fundamental question of philosophy."
The truth of the matter is that nearly all suicides cause more pain than they prevent, and research indicates that one suicide can breed others. For this reason, more than one researcher has compared suicide to a contagion. The waves of the event ripple ever outward, like a stone dropped into a still pond. As one mother whose son took his own life told journalist Andrew Solomon, "I feel as though my fingers are caught in a slamming door and I've been stopped permanently midscream."
Parkland school shooting survivor dies by suicide

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Public accounts of suicide also help inspire suicidal behavior and elicit suicidal thoughts. Whenever a major suicide story breaks in the media, the suicide rate goes up. After Marilyn Monroe's death, which was reported widely as a suicide, the rate of suicide went up 12%. After Anthony Bourdain and Kate Spade took their own lives in 2018, the number of calls to suicide hotlines across the US spiked by 65%.
One of the few things we can say with any certainty is that people have been killing themselves for a very long time and that most religions are opposed to it. The ancient Greeks looked at life as a gift from the gods. In Athens those who killed themselves were denied funeral rites and the hand that had been used to commit the act was severed from the arm. From its earliest days, the Catholic Church opposed suicide. St. Augustine, in his argument against it, said that suicide violated the Sixth Commandment: "Thou shall not murder." Dante took matters a few steps further in "The Inferno," where those who killed themselves were condemned to live in the Seventh Circle of Hell as bleeding trees while being tortured by harpies.
Despite all the official prohibitions against it, suicide has remained a constant throughout human history. Achilles, the hero of "The Iliad," when he saw the dead body of Patroclus, his friend and second-in-command, had to be restrained by a fellow soldier, lest he cut his own throat. The impulse to harm oneself after trauma or the death of a loved one seems to be rooted deep in human psychology. Nor is the phenomenon of suicidal behavior as an expression of grief limited to Western society. As anthropologist Jack Goody noted in his 1962 study of the West African LoDagaa tribe, the hands of mourners were tied together with an animal hide as a precaution against self-harm after a death in the family occurred.
Parkland victim's dad reads suicide prevention questions

Parkland victim's dad reads suicide prevention questions 02:34
We will never know what prompted Richman, Sydney Aiello or another unnamed Parkland student to take their own lives. It's tempting to offer some hollow version of "thoughts and prayers" for people who have lost family members to suicide, but as a society we need challenge ourselves to think more creatively about what to do about it.
Suicide is a kind of social epidemic seemingly exacerbated by the media and technology we binge on every day. We are spending more and more time looking at our phones and less and less time actually interacting with other human beings who might offer us an outlet to help relieve our suffering. We are spending more and more time online every day "connecting" with others on social media, but we've never been more socially isolated or possessed less self-knowledge. As Jaron Lanier writes in "You Are Not A Gadget," his 2010 study of internet culture, "You have to be somebody before you can share yourself."
There are other tangible steps we can take as well. In the US, as one might expect, guns and drugs are among the most common methods of suicide. The Veterans Administration -- which is dealing with a suicide epidemic that sees an average of 20 veterans taking their lives every day -- has a longstanding policy of asking veterans undergoing treatment for post-traumatic stress disorder if they can lock up or remove any firearms in their homes in order to prevent them from killing themselves.
While I don't expect to solve the gun control debate with this logic, research shows that impulsivity plays a huge role in suicide, so denying high-risk people access to firearms and dangerous drugs such as opiates could save lives. The most important thing, however, is to stop repeating the platitudes and start having a more honest and blunt conversation about suicide.
Many survivors will be haunted forever by the question which lingers -- "Why didn't he reach out for help?" Suicide is so many things -- an act of desperation, a way of ending one's pain, a kind of mass murder and a kind of mirror held up to our world, a world that many such as Jeremy Richman found unbearable. As G.K. Chesterton wrote:
The man who kills a man kills a man.
The man who kills himself kills all men.
As far as he is concerned, he wipes out the world.
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If you or someone you know might be at risk of suicide, here's how to get help: In the United States, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-8255. The International Association for Suicide Prevention and Befrienders Worldwide also can provide contact information for crisis centers around the world.

16-year old Calvin Desir Apparently took his Life in Florida please scroll down

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(CNN)The student at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida, who died by an apparent suicide on Saturday has been identified as 16-year-old Calvin Desir, according to police.
Calvin Desir
Coral Springs Police Officer Tyler Reik confirmed the boy's identity on Wednesday.
The circumstances surrounding the student's death are still being investigated, police said. The Broward County Medical Examiner's office has not ruled on an official cause of death, police added.
Calvin was a sophomore at Stoneman Douglas.
He was the second teenager who attended the school during the shooting to die by suicide in the span of a week.
Sydney Aiello, 19, was a 2018 graduate of Marjory Stoneman Douglas High. Aiello, a student at Florida Atlantic University, took her own life on March 17.
Her funeral was Friday in Davie, Florida.
If you or someone you know might be at risk of suicide, here's how to get help: In the United States, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-8255. The International Association for Suicide Prevention and Befrienders Worldwide also can provide contact information for crisis centers around the world.