Friday, September 20, 2019

Update for my readers

Yesterday, I had a giggly panic attack since I learned that before my moving date, I will have to take down my boxes from the upstairs which we occupy to the garage! This means that not only do I have to pack everything up from 4 bedrooms 3 bathrooms, and a double garage and shed, but also have it all downstairs waiting for a truck. My life has been turned upside down.
Finally, I will have to donate all of Deborah's beloved items/clothing to immigration services or an urban missions center. I don't know how I can do all this with my husband's failing health. This is getting too much. Yesterday, we talked with the banker that we will be paying off our mortgage; learned that we have a small penalty, and that we need to talk with a notary about our shares in the housing society that we are moving to. This afternoon, we will be selecting kitchen cabinets, and getting estimates. We need to get rid of all the old appliances in our new place and have new ones ready to go. I simply don't want the risk of having them fail, and deal with a flood in our new investment. In the midst of all this Deborah's friend will be visiting us from out of town. I really look forward to this! As we reach out to our neighbours and friends who may be shut in's and are dealing with mental health make sure you take care of yourself as well. I miss writing to you, my readers very much, but we will only be settled in my the end of October.

Thursday, September 19, 2019

Andrew Berry's defence as murder trial winds down

British Columbia

'The Crown better prove that he's a liar,' says Andrew Berry's defence as murder trial winds down

Closing arguments underway for Oak Bay man's murder trial in 2017 deaths of his 2 little girls

The bodies of six-year-old Chloe Berry, left, and her four-year-old sister, Aubrey, were found in their father's Oak Bay, B.C., apartment on Christmas Day 2017. (Submitted)
It's up to the Crown to prove that Andrew Berry is lying when he says someone else is responsible for killing his two young daughters, his defence told a jury Tuesday.
Lawyer Kevin McCullough opened his closing submissions in B.C. Supreme Court with a reminder that prosecutors must prove beyond a reasonable doubt that Berry killed six-year-old Chloe and four-year-old Aubrey on Christmas Day 2017.
"When the accused takes the stand and says he didn't do it and gives you detailed evidence, the Crown better prove that he's a liar. Not maybe, but that he is," McCullough said, his voice rising to a near-shout.
"It's not good enough to call him a liar and then do nothing to prove it."
The Crown alleges that Berry used a baseball bat and a knife to kill Chloe, then stabbed Aubrey to death before trying to kill himself. The girls were found dead in his Oak Bay apartment; he was lying in the bathtub, naked and badly injured.
But Berry claims he and the girls were attacked by an unknown man with "dark skin and dark hair." He's testified that he owed a large gambling debt to a loan shark named Paul, and had given a spare set of apartment keys to Paul's associates so they could access packages Berry had agreed to store.
McCullough reminded the jury that Berry was under no obligation to testify, and did not have to explain himself to anybody.
"If he was going to tell you a big lie, he would have told you a heck of a lot better one than that," McCullough said.

5 'problems' with Crown theory

Time after time during Tuesday's proceedings, McCullough told the jury the Crown should not be given the benefit of the doubt — the benefit of the doubt should always go to Berry.
McCullough began the day by drawing the jury's attention to what he described as five problems with the Crown's evidence — places where he saw gaps that could only be filled through speculation:
  1. The girls' time of death. Crown contends they were stabbed to death at around 8 a.m., citing evidence from a neighbour about loud crashing noises in Berry's suite. But defence argued that if the girls were killed in the morning, pools of blood and a body should have been visible through the windows if or when Berry's mother and his ex peeked in the windows that afternoon, as a neighbour has testified.
  2. Berry's alleged suicide attempt after the girls were killed. McCullough pointed out that medical experts have not been able to say conclusively whether the wounds on Berry's chest and neck were self-inflicted.
  3. Berry's alleged motive. Crown has argued that Berry was furious with the girls' mother, Sarah Cotton, and in despair over the prospect of losing access to his children. McCullough countered that Berry's relationship with Cotton was not unusual, and that Berry has only been described as a gentle father.
  4. The forensic evidence. McCullough described police work at the scene as "terrible" and inconclusive, and said the forensic evidence should not be used to prove anything about what happened.
  5. Berry's financial situation. Berry had no job, hadn't been paying his rent, had no job prospects, and his electricity had been cut off for weeks by Christmas 2017. But defence argues that was just business as usual for Berry, and should not serve as evidence against him.
Andrew Berry claims a man with 'dark skin and dark hair' attacked him and his daughters on Christmas Day 2017 in Oak Bay, B.C., a Victoria suburb. (Jane Wolsak)
McCullough focused on the forensic evidence for a good portion of his submissions on Tuesday, describing the police blood spatter expert as "incompetent" and "completely and wholly unreliable" in her testimony.
He asked why officers didn't take fingerprints from the alleged murder weapons, or photograph the outside of the apartment to determine what would have been visible to anyone looking inside.
McCullough also questioned how, if Berry stabbed both girls repeatedly, none of their DNA was discovered on his clothing.
He suggested that many of the Crown's witnesses may have twisted or even fabricated some evidence provided to the court.
"They feel guilty that a tragedy happened. They think Mr. Berry did it, and they should have done something to prevent it," McCullough said.
"What they're doing is attempting to assist, I would argue, the prosecution."
Defence will continue closing submissions on Wednesday afternoon.

About the Author

Bethany Lindsay
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Bethany Lindsay has more than a decade of experience in B.C. journalism, with a focus on the courts, health and social justice issues. She has also reported on human rights and crimes against humanity in Cambodia. Questions or news tips? Get in touch at bethany.lindsay@cbc.ca or on Twitter through @bethanylindsay.

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Friday, September 13, 2019

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I can't believe that my little grand-daughter is 3 months old. She puts her hands in her mouth and tried to hold things such as a rattle. Her smile is captivating, and her little voice enchanting. I don't want to miss a day of her development.
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Aside from the joy of this little child, we are dealing with health issues. Deborah's dad has lost so much weight in a short time that we were very worried about his health. Now we found out that it may be thyroid related, not Chron's disease which he had since in his twenties. This is part of the reason that I have not been posting. In the midst of downsizing to a 55 year plus townhome, we are going to the doctors often. The glimmer of hope is that by the end of October we will have settled into our new home and neighbourhood. We are at the mercy of friends and family to help us. You have no idea how much stuff, and furniture I have given away in order to fit into this very small 2 bedroom place. I suppose this is all part of life, and eventually death. We build while we are young, getting more and bigger, and when we turn 55, we try to simplify our lives. The rainy season has come also which makes things less easy. I will be digging up some of the fruit bearing bushes and taking it to our new place. I rejoice that I will have a little plot, maybe 10 by 12 feet for my shrubs and such. I shook hands with some of my neighbours to be, and am so happy that I will be in a quiet neigbourhood without monster homes, and party buses around us. Again, thank you for your patience with me as we are transitioning. I want to be a blessing to those who are hurting, and feel that they have no purpose or hope in memory of Deborah the one I lost.

Cassidy lights up my day

My Grand daughter lights up my day! She has dimples just like my Deborah did. Tomorrow, I will get to spend time with her again, so much fun!!
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