Monday, December 31, 2018

New protocol at St. Paul's hospital following Surrey father's 'Suicide'

Spencer Walden with his daughter. (Contributed photo)

New protocol at St. Paul’s hospital following Surrey father’s ‘suicide’

Without change, ‘Spencer won’t be the last’: brother
A new protocol for dealing with patients who are admitted to hospital with concurrent mental health and physical conditions is now “part of the mix” at St. Paul’s Hospital, following the death nearly three years ago of a Surrey father at the Vancouver facility.
Spencer Walden spent his final days at St. Paul’s in February 2016, before falling to his death – in what has been ruled a suicide – from one of its seventh-storey windows.
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Providence Health spokesman Shaf Hussein confirmed that steps have been taken as a result of the “very sad and tragic story,” in an effort to better care for dual-diagnosis patients.
The possibility “of moving higher-risk complex patients to mental health units with a medical nurse brought in to oversee one-to-one medical care” was a specific addition to protocols, Hussein told Peace Arch News by email Dec. 13.
It was added “about a year ago.”
As well, within planning for a new hospital, “we indeed have included specialized ‘dual-diagnosis’ beds as part of the care models,” Hussein said.
Spencer, 32, died on Feb. 18, 2016, three days after being brought to St. Paul’s with “an altered level of consciousness.” In the weeks prior, he had been undergoing treatment at Peace Arch Hospital for his deteriorating mental state, but had left that facility on Feb. 14 against medical advice. He was found the next morning by Vancouver police.
At St. Paul’s, diagnosed with a liver injury, Spencer was placed in a medical ward. At one point, he was physically restrained due to signs of paranoia, including hearing voices, but – despite appeals from his family for more secure care – he remained on a medical ward.
On the day he died, according to a coroner’s report released to PAN Dec. 10, Spencer – shortly after being asked if he was having suicidal thoughts and responding, “I’m good” – smashed a window with an oxygen tank, sat on the ledge and leaned out backwards.
His case was reviewed after his family challenged the ruling of suicide.
In her report, coroner Claire Thompson upheld the classification, noting it includes deaths in people whose cognition may be impaired by acute psychosis, intoxication or impulsive acts.
Following the report’s release, Spencer’s brother Brodie Walden told PAN he still has “trouble believing” Spencer intended to take his own life.
He said the report is “fairly vague” on details of what happened in the minutes before his brother died, including if any other patients were in the room at the time.
“For all we know, he was seeing demons in the room,” Brodie said. “When you’re thoroughly convinced (of) something like that, you can’t predict behaviour.
“Some more facts may be required to actually discern what went on. That’s going to leave a lot of vacancy in our thoughts about what actually happened.”
Thompson noted that beds dedicated to treating dual-diagnosis patients are “very limited” in B.C.
Fraser Health spokesperson Tasleem Juma couldn’t comment on Spencer’s case specifically, but confirmed there are no beds with that precise definition in the region – not because the services don’t exist, but “because the way we deliver the service is very different.”
At the same time, she said it’s unclear exactly what the coroner meant by “dual-diagnosis” beds.
“Many of our patients have multiple medical issues that need to be dealt with simultaneously,” Juma said Tuesday.
“I can’t really comment on this definition… It’s not ‘this patient goes into this bed.’ It’s ‘the patient comes in and needs the service and we bring the service to them.’
“We wrap the services around the individual.”
In the case of a patient with a risk of leaving or potentially harming themselves or someone else, “we have the ability, for example, to have one-to-one companionship for that person,” Juma said.
“We would have somebody stay with them all the time, even if they were not in the psychiatric unit.”
Brodie said it’s clear to his family that resources are lacking to treat people who are struggling in ways similar to his younger brother.
Spencer had grappled with his mental health since he was a teenager, but with treatment and family support, was high-functioning and productive, according to his family.
In “troubling times” that occurred every few years – typically rooted in Spencer tapering off his medications – Spencer’s wife, mom and siblings “were there to always help him and make sure he made it through,” family members told PAN in a September 2016 interview.
Brodie said following the release of the coroner’s report that during those difficult times, Spencer would gravitate to the Downtown Eastside, “to people that were like him.”
“If there’s not enough resources to treat people like that, there should be,” he said.
The challenge now, he said, is how to effect change.
Steps so far are “in the right direction,” Brodie said.
But he’s at somewhat of a loss as to where to go from here.
“Some of us are willing to fight, myself included. But at what cost? And what change are we going to get out of this?” he said.
“Until somebody actually wants to listen, it makes it very difficult.”
Brodie is certain of one thing: without change, Spencer “won’t be the last.”
Hussein could not comment on specific bed numbers planned for the new hospital, but said the learning at St. Paul’s is continuous, “from our experiences, from our patient and family partners, from research and from trends in patient needs… and we aim to improve care, fill in gaps in the best way possible from these continuous learnings.”
As further example, he cited the opening four years ago of St. Paul’s Acute Behavioural Stabilization Unit (ABSU), done “in response to growing concerns for dual-diagnosis (mental health/substance users) patients,” as well as the opening last summer of the HUB and Transitional Care Centre, which also targets those struggling with mental health and addictions.

File photo Spencer Walden’s family – widow Nicki, brother Brodie, mother Rosanne and sister Rhianna – brought concerns over hospital care that preceded the 32-year-old’s death to Peace Arch News in September 2016. A coroner’s report upheld Walden’s death was a suicide, but recommended changes to care for dual-diagnosis patients.

Saturday, December 29, 2018

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Demi Lovato Overdosing in her 8 million home

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Demi Lovato overdosing in her $8mil home is the newest punchline for memes.

She joins the Bipolar relapse walk of fame in the company of 2007 Britney Spears and Amanda Bynes’ Twitter rampages.

Relapse is hilarious.

Hilarious until it’s Robin Williams spending his whole life making others happy - just to end his own with a rope around his neck.

It’s all SO funny until it’s tragic.

Until it’s your sister’s lifeless body on the floor, accompanied by an empty bottle of her medication. Until it’s your son alone in his room with a razor to his wrist. Or your Mum who hasn’t left her bed for a week.

Mental illness looks like so many things.

It’s Carrie Fisher on 7 different medications, 3 times per day. It’s Jim Carrey and Ben Stiller and Stephen Fry.

It might look like your mate who hasn’t been to school in 2 weeks and won’t answer your calls. Or the neighbour you haven’t seen leave the house this month, and you can see the dirty dishes as a mountain through the window. It might be the teen on drugs or the girl you know who’s always too shaky to speak. One day, it might even be your own reflection.

It’s 1 in 4 people you know. 25% of us have a problem with our mental health and too many more have a problem with that.

As Kevin Breel said,
“…unfortunately, we live in a world where if you break your arm, everyone runs over to sign your cast, but if you tell people you’re depressed, everyone runs the other way. That’s the stigma. We are so, so, so accepting of any body part breaking down, other than our brains. And that’s ignorance. That’s pure ignorance. And that ignorance has created a world that doesn’t understand depression, that doesn’t understand mental health.”

https://www.facebook.com/thegirlinthesunflowerdress/ (original author)

Jordan Peterson: Why The LEFT Hate Me (Full Interview)

I am trying to listen to many of his speeches. I like his frankness and life observations. I like his advice also very much. God Bless Him and all of those who are trying to better their lives.

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Thursday, December 27, 2018

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Little well Wishes

Just sending little notes to wish Deborah's friends a Merry Christmas. Here is one of her friends whom we have not heard from for a long time. I sure hope she is all right! Sometimes, I know for various reasons we will not hear from some of her close friends. Thankfully, God holds them close, and we release them into His tender care.
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Missing Deborah over the Holidays

Dear Friends, I hope that your Holiday was pleasant and you were an encouragement to others during the last few days. I have started to put away some of the excess decorations. I was hoping that we would not feel rushed but things come up that you can't help. For instance our car broke down on boxing day, and we got towed to our mechanic's shop. He was very sleepy when he opened the gates.  I give God thanks for all these beautiful talented people who serve us all year round. I thank our grocery store clerks, our doctors, dentists, mechanics, gardeners at the cemetery, hairdressers our city workers who answer calls regarding a bunch of things. We still have people without power on Vancouver Island after 6 days. Imagine having to work for BC Hydro while your family is all together this time of the year? I thank our telephone wires which connect us to our long distance relatives and friends.
I called my mom in Florida the other day, Deborah's grandma only to read the Christmas story to her before they told me she must go and have her dinner at 4;30 in the afternoon. Life is hard and often cruel, but we must see the silver lining in all things, and not grow bitter. If there is anything we can try to do this coming new year, is to speak the truth and not grow bitter despite the hardships of life. This is easier said than done.
Deborah on the left, Erica in the Middle and Elizabeth in Silver, 3 of the four girls
I regret not being able to go to the graveside, and take flowers to Deborah. Today we have no car, and yesterday, we spent the majority of time Boxing day Shopping, and getting towed. All this makes us appreciate things more. My eldest turned 30 on Boxing Day. Somehow it is hard to fathom how quickly she grew up.. Missing my dear Deborah, on all of these holiday occasions. Her absence makes my heart ache in a very literal way.

Christmas Photo of Hungarian Prime Minister

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Monday, December 24, 2018

Royal Choral Society: 'Hallelujah Chorus' from Handel's Messiah

Merry Christmas Everyone! May your joy be full, and I am thankful for you.

Three Sisters Playing on Strings

http://www.100huntley.com/watch?videoID=333665

At 15;45 you can hear the three sisters play their stringed instruments. One has brown hair, one has blond, and the other has auburn hair. They look like angels to me. Their parent's testimony is also wonderful to listen to with all the hardships they went through. 

Saturday, December 22, 2018

YOU ARE STRONG! An Incredible Speech by Jordan Peterson

Be Strong in the Lord, and of Good Cheer for His reward is with Him, ready to be given to His servants.  Merry Christmas to all who may be many time zones ahead of mine on the Pacific West Coast. Thank you for being strong with me despite our circumstances. Hold each other close, and forgive everyone so God can also forgive you.. Blessings

Maria

Friday, December 21, 2018

Try and keep things simple!

Today, we got a lot accomplished. Apparently, this is the busiest day on the road before Christmas, and we succeeded in many ways. We went to the podiatrist in Burnaby, so our feet are in great shape.

Then we went to a European deli, in Vancouver. I have a good stash of sausage meat for the turkey, and some delicious cold cuts that include salami and Hungarian paprika-sh head cheese. The latter is a gelled sandwich meat that is simply delicious. I managed to take some baking over to the neighbors. They are East Indian, and don't eat meat, not even eggs, so I hope the baking will be acceptable to them. My tables have been extended for the dinner we will have around the holiday's. Today, being the shortest day of the year, I will prepare some of the vegetables for the meal.. ie, peel potatoes, and get the stuffing veggies, and bread ready. The turkey is thawing in the fridge. I am also making bread from the frozen bread dough. I think Elephant Ears will be also something I will tackle tonight with the same dough. We garnish it with sour cream and lots of crushed garlic butter.  Tonight the temperature will cool off, so after a horrific windstorm of yesterday, we may get some snow tomorrow. This is what happened in White Rock, B.C. our Pier ripped apart at a famous tourist spot near the American Boarder. Please take care of yourselves, and don't put any expectations on others, and don't put any expectations on yourself. The Holiday's can be very challenging. just a wee note to say remember to take care of yourself this coming couple of weeks.
Try and keep things simple, no expectations, don’t let the family put  demands on you and try not to put demands on them.
Remember flexibility.


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Wednesday, December 19, 2018

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How Vancouver's Next Mayor Can Help End the Opioid Crisis

How Vancouver’s Next Mayor Can Help End the Opioid Crisis

Three experts on the frontlines weigh in.

By Geoff Dembicki 17 Oct 2018 | TheTyee.ca Geoff Dembicki reports for The Tyee. His work also appears in Vice, Foreign Policy and the New York Times. His 2018 municipal election reporting is supported by Tyee Builders.
Five years after fentanyl came to British Columbia, the opioid epidemic keeps getting worse. Numbers released in August by the B.C. Coroners Service established a grim new record. In March 2018, 162 people died of fatal drug overdoses across the province, the deadliest month yet recorded. Vancouver has been hit particularly hard. In one week alone earlier this June, 11 people died of drug overdoses. “Last week’s death count is simply ghastly.... Tragically, this marks Vancouver’s worst week for overdose deaths so far this year,” outgoing Mayor Gregor Roberston said after the report’s release.
  • We’ll tell you what we mean in this note. And why you hold the answer.
  • The opioid epidemic has not been a major issue in a civic election focused almost exclusively on housing. Yet two left-leaning candidates vying to replace Robertson on Oct. 20 have made it increasingly central to their election campaigns. At a recent debate, independent candidate and former NDP MP Kennedy Stewart said “we had a mass murder [with opioids] and we don’t talk about this.” He’s promised to create an emergency task force on overdoses. His main progressive competitor for mayor, independent candidate Shauna Sylvester, notes “we are in the midst of an opioid poisoning crisis.” And she’s said, “I do support the decriminalization of drug possession.”
    The three leading right-wing candidates support less ambitious policies than full-on decriminalization. Yes Vancouver’s Hector Bremner is pushing “no barrier housing” as one potential solution. The NPA’s Ken Sim recently called for a review of Downtown Eastside services. Coalition Vancouver’s Wai Young wants a new drug policy co-ordinator, a position that was eliminated by Vision Vancouver.
    Over the past week I reached out to three experts on the frontlines of the crisis to understand why fatal drug overdoses remain so high, and what Vancouver’s next mayor could do immediately to lower them. These experts told me that of all the candidates campaigning for mayor, Stewart and Sylvester seem to have the most developed policies on drug overdoses. Yet they argued even these two candidates’ platforms may fall short of what’s needed to address the crisis: an unequivocal commitment to decriminalizing hard drugs and concrete steps for achieving it.
    “Various politicians say the right words but in fact very little is happening,” Garth Mullins, a harm reduction activist who works with groups such as the Vancouver Area Network of Drug Users and the British Columbia Association for People on Methadone, told me. “People are dying because drugs are illegal.”
    Vancouver is undoubtedly the epicentre of an opioid crisis that in recent years has spread to many communities across Canada. Yet the city is also on the vanguard of solutions. Organizations such as Crosstown Clinic give clean prescription heroin to drug addicts. The Vision Vancouver government several years ago decided to allow pop-up overdose prevention sites in the city to openly operate. “That was a pretty big deal,” Travis Lupick, the Vancouver-based author of Fighting For Space: How a Group of Drug Users Transformed One City’s Struggle with Addiction and a contributor to the Georgia Straight, told me. Yet these types of solutions “are just a finger in the dike,” he said. “At some [point] we need to begin talking about how to actually repair the dike.”
    Mayor Robertson tried to start that conversation earlier this year. In March, the city urged the Government of Canada to drop legal penalties for personal possession of drugs. “We are witnessing a horrific and preventable loss of life as a poisoned drug supply continues to kill our neighbours, friends and family,” Robertson said. Activists such as Mullins see decriminalization as a crucial step in removing stigma around hard drug use and making it easier for people to get treatment. “You can’t solve this with arrests,” he said. “Let’s stop arresting people for possessing drugs.”
    Robertson repeated the call for decriminalization in April. In August, he called on the federal government to make clean and legal opioids available. But the Liberal government of Justin Trudeau doesn’t seem to be interested. “We are not looking to decriminalize or legalize all illegal drugs,” a spokesperson for Health Canada told the Georgia Straight. Given that Canada’s drug penalties fall under federal jurisdiction, that would appear to settle the issue. Yet there are several concrete steps Vancouver’s next mayor could take to push decriminalization.
    One of the first could be to instruct the Vancouver Police Department to make possession-related arrests a lower priority for law enforcement officers. “That would be within Vancouver’s authority,” Lupick argued. “There’s a pretty strong precedent. Vancouver did this with marijuana over the last decade.” Mullins said this could have immediate public health benefits. “Arrests are incredibly disruptive to someone using drugs and potentially life threatening,” he said. Addicts can go into withdrawal. They may lose connections to trusted dealers. Their drug tolerance might go down. This can make you “much more ready for an overdose,” he said.
    A new Vancouver mayor who is seriously committed to ending the opioid crisis could also revaluate the city’s police budget. “The amount of funding that goes into policing in this city is pretty wild,” said Caitlin Shane, a staff lawyer at Pivot Legal Society and an expert on drug policy. Last year the police department requested almost $285 million, which is one-fifth of the entire municipal budget. Part of that included a new $700,000 facility for testing evidence contaminated by fentanyl — which activist Aiyanas Ormond called “wasteful and unnecessary.” “Money could be spent so much better,” Shane said. “It could go towards health services, housing, overdose prevention sites, harm reduction, paying workers on the front lines.”
    The city could also push to change federal drugs laws. One way to go about this could be to request federal permission to run a decriminalization pilot project in Vancouver. “It’s not clear to me whether they would succeed, whether the federal government would approve an application to do that,” Shane explained. “But it’s something they could try.” This could help move debate forward on the crisis and open up possibilities for solving it. She said few politicians are willing to have the discussion. “It’s hard to find someone who will commit to these kinds of concrete projects. There’s a tendency to talk about things broadly and generally,” she said.
    Meanwhile people are dying of fatal drug overdoses in record numbers. And the message government inaction sends to drug users is that their lives don’t matter. “Once you become a drug user we seem to care about you a lot less than we care about other humans,” Lupick said. Mullins said the solutions are obvious to people on the frontlines of the crisis: stop locking drug users up for personal possession and do everything possible to ensure that they have a safe and clean drug supply.
    A new mayor and city council pursuing these goals could make a big difference to the crisis. “This is not something that’s a popularity contest,” Mullins said. “We don’t have a referendum to see if we should have a medical response to [outbreaks like] SARS, you just do it, it’s an emergency.... If you’re doing it right, it’s happening fast.”  [Tyee]

    Suicide Support Group in Abbotsford Starting Up

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    Monday, December 17, 2018

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    Sunday, December 16, 2018

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    Suicide Contagion & Suicide Clusters

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    Suicide Contagion & Suicide Clusters

    Robert Olson, Librarian, BA, MLIS, Centre for Suicide Prevention

    infoExchange is an original resource that examines topics relating to suicide in a way that encourages conversation, written in an editorial style.

    Introduction
    The suicide of Amanda Todd in 2012 was inescapable news. Whether you watched the video of her struggles on YouTube , or followed the overwhelming onslaught of mainstream news reports after her death, her tragic story was difficult to miss.
    Almost immediately after her suicide our organization was contacted by many mainstream radio, television, and newspaper media outlets. Many wanted to know whether coverage of her death might incite suicidal contagion (also known as “copycat” suicides). It was a complex question to answer because so many attention-worthy issues surrounded this story: bullying, cyberbullying, responsible use of social media and, of course, suicide itself. With this many complex issues at play–all deserving of attention and conversation–we could not simply give reporters the convenient sixty-second sound-bite that many were after. Yet there was also a real potential for contagion. It got me thinking anew about the role contagion and clusters play in suicide.

    What is suicidal contagion and what are suicide clusters? It has long been believed that when suicidal contagion occurs, a suicide cluster can develop. A cluster, in this case, is defined as multiple suicidal behaviours or suicides that fall within an accelerated time frame, and sometimes within a defined geographical area. Studies have shown that adolescents are the ones most affected (Zenere, 2009).
    There are two main types of clusters. A mass cluster involves suicides that cluster in time – irrespective of geography – and are often associated with the influence that media reports may have, such as suicides by celebrities. Point clusters involve suicides that are close in time and/or space. They often occur within institutional settings such as hospitals, prisons, or schools, or within distinct communities.
    A mass cluster involves suicides that cluster in time-irrespective of geography-and are often associated with the influence that media reports may have, such as suicides by celebrities.
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    Let’s look at mass clusters first.
    Marilyn Monroe’s controversial death is often cited as a quintessential case of this “copycat effect.” There was a rise in suicides by as much as 12% during the month after her death. Subsequent studies saw similar parallels between confirmed suicides of celebrities and ensuing news coverage of them (as well as coverage of non-celebrities who died by suicide).
    There was a rise in suicides by as much as 12% after the death of Marilyn Monroe.
    In the 1970’s, David Phillips coined the term “The Werther Effect,” which was named after an 18th century novel by Goethe called The Sorrows of Young Werther. The hero of the novel tragically dies by suicide after a failed love affair. A great fear of real-life contagion ensued – a fear that young people would read the book and want to kill themselves. Because of this, it was banned in much of Europe (Scherr, 2011). Phillip’s theory had tremendous influence on some researchers who believed that there was a direct relationship between media coverage of suicide and contagion. They further believed that the young and vulnerable should be protected from exposure to all stories of suicide, whether they were accounts of real suicides, celebrity or otherwise, or seemingly less harmful fictional accounts of suicide.
    Not everyone, however, agreed with this research. Many scholars–Littman for example–suggest that individuals who may be influenced by these stories are already in a vulnerable state. Thus, their suicides might have been the result of some other precipitating factor, and not necessarily media exposure of suicide (Westerlund, 2009). Others, like Thomas Joiner, believe that the evidence of the existence of mass clusters is far from conclusive (1999).
    Nevertheless, there was sufficient belief in the potential harm of suicide coverage to call for media guidelines. Various agencies, including the Center for Disease Control, the World Health Organization, and the Canadian Psychiatric Association (CPA) devised policies.
    The case of Amanda Todd brought the issue of contagion very much to the forefront again. Although she was not a celebrity before she posted her video or took her life, many feared that the overwhelming attention that the media saturation of the story generated might influence others to also take their lives. Patti Bacchus of the Vancouver School board, for example, called for more strict adherence to the CPA media guidelines. She felt that the media had really “crossed the line” in their eagerness to cover the story, and had irresponsibly ignored crucial guidelines.
    These guidelines have become irrelevant in our current age of instant information sharing – André Picard
    Others, such as André Picard of the Globe and Mail and Dr. Goldbloom of the Mental Health Commission, think that many of these guidelines do not reflect the realities of the 21st century information and communication. They feel that many of the points need to be reconsidered.
    Picard further states that these guidelines have become irrelevant in our current age of instant information sharing. He does not believe that media coverage, no matter how extensive, has any significant impact on suicide contagion.
    It is safe to assume that the vast majority of young people–those most vulnerable to this phenomenon–got the news of Todd’s suicide through YouTube, Twitter, or Facebook. It would be interesting to see the exact numbers, but it would be safe to assume as well that very few got the news via traditional media coverage such as newspapers, radio, or TV news broadcasts. This paradigm shift alone may make the notion of whether media plays a role in contagion a moot point. Social media will spread the news relentlessly and even more disconcerting than the sheer speed with which it is shared, is the fact this news may be mostly unmediated and unfiltered.
    Are there ways that this news can be disseminated on social media more responsibly? The answers may have to come from the users themselves.
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    Where mass clusters are a topic of debate, there is no mistaking the phenomenon of point clusters. Joiner, cited above, believes mass clusters to be equivocal but does not doubt the existence of point clusters. These clusters do exist in mainstream society. A recent number of suicides in the small city of Red Deer, Alberta, is showing potential characteristics of a point cluster. Six high school males had all killed themselves in the previous year. Whether these individuals knew each other and were influenced by one another’s actions is still unclear. A Facebook page was set up by three Red Deer girls to support those affected by the suicides; perhaps this is how the peers of the deceased are hoping to respond to the suicides respectfully without inciting more cases. Interestingly, the media only began to report this after these grassroots (albeit through social media) actions were taken.
    Point clusters involve suicides that are close in time and/or space. They often occur within institutional settings such as hospitals, prisons, or schools, or within distinct communities.
    Point clusters are a major problem in some Indigenous communities. Many native reserves consist of individuals who are closely related and share the same social predicaments, thus, the impact of a single suicide is often felt by the entire community. Because of the closeness of the residents, there is a greater risk of a cascading effect leading to a cluster of suicides (Kirmayer, 2007).
    Point clusters are a major problem in some Indigenous communities.
    These can also manifest as echo clusters which refer to clusters that occur over an extended time period after the original cluster (Masecar, 2009). A single death by suicide can resonate for months to come, with individuals taking their own lives in imitation of a prior suicide.
    Echo clusters refer to clusters that occur over an extended time period after the original cluster. broadcasts. This paradigm shift alone may make the notion of whether media plays a role in contagion a moot point. Social media will spread the news relentlessly and even more disconcerting than the sheer speed with which it is shared, is the fact that this news may be mostly unmediated and unfiltered.
    In British Columbia, Chief Harvey Alphonse of the Cowichan Nation says, “It’s devastating whenever an individual is successful. It impacts not only the immediate family, but the entire community. That’s where the ripple effect seems to take place.” He attributes a widespread feeling of hopelessness in these communities as a major cause of clusters.
    It’s devastating whenever an individual is successful. It impacts not only the immediate family, but the entire community. That’s where the ripple effect seems to take place – Chief Harvey Alphonse
    It is important to note, however, that not all Indigenous communities have experienced suicide clusters or have regular incidents of suicide. In communities where there is a strong sense of local culture, community ownership, and other protective factors, it is believed that there are much lower rates of suicide and sometimes none at all (Kirmayer, 2007).
    Unfortunately, on some reserves where these protective factors have not been strongly developed, the situation can sometimes be severe. The suicide rate for Indigenous youth can be five to seven times higher than for non-Indigenous Canadians. Many Indigenous people still experience remnants of historical social and economic upheaval caused by colonization, residential schools, and the “sixties scoop” (and into the seventies, where children were taken off the reserves and fostered to mostly Caucasian families).
    These wounds continue to fester in many areas today, often called “acculturative stress,” and inhibit the growth of a healthy environment. The young will be increasingly vulnerable as Indigenous people are the fastest growing ethnic group in Canada.
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    In some Inuit communities, the number of suicides are 102 per 100,000 people. This is up to ten times higher than in the general Canadian population. Many young Inuit see suicide as a normal and viable option to cope with an untenable living situation (Masecar, 2009).
    Indeed, suicide can become a “normalized” response to a seemingly hopeless existence, and these dire circumstances can further be exacerbated if the community formally chooses not to address the situation. In some areas the stigma of suicide is so strong that there is no word for it in the native language, and there is a pronounced reluctance to mention the word “suicide.” This state of denial makes the implementation of suicide prevention measures extremely difficult. Silence and a lack of suicide prevention initiatives in the lives of children and youth can be the strongest reinforcement of the message that what they are doing is not only normal, but also, on some level, expected (Kirmayer, 2007).
    Although we hear of these epidemic situations periodically in the mainstream press, the vast majority of suicides and suicide clusters that occur in Indigenous communities go under reported.  Anecdotal evidence that we at the Centre for Suicide Prevention hear from people with connections to Indigenous reserves is that suicidal clusters occur quite often, and are rarely officially acknowledged.
    So, ironically, as the worry of media coverage of suicides and its relationship to contagion continues, the occurrence of suicide point clusters remains virtually unnoticed and unreported in some areas. As one of my colleagues has stated, “They are all but invisible in the mainstream media”.
    New and unique challenges continue to rise around the new media’s relationship to contagion. Perhaps the best solution for how to contain the issue of copy-cat suicides will come from the (mostly) young people who make exhaustive use of these media. It would be reasonable, as well, to expect that the hosts of the sites will implement responsible policies regarding suicide, and not tolerate abusive behaviours.
    Similarly, the issue of contagion within the Indigenous community must first and foremost come from within the community. The Indigenous people themselves must develop responses that are appropriate to their distinct culture and actively seek every level of support possible to help to reduce suicide and minimize its impact.

    References

    Boothroyd,L., et al.(2001). Completed suicides among the Inuit of northern Quebec, 1982-1996: A case-control study. Canadian Medical Association Journal,165(6),749-755.
    Gould, M., Jamieson, P. and Romer, D. (2003). Media contagion and suicide among the young. American Behavioral Scientist, 46(9), 1269-1284.
    Joiner, T. (1999). The Clustering and Contagion of suicide. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 8(3), 89-92.
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    Masecar, D. (2009). Suicide clusters: A discussion. Ottawa, ON.: First Nations Inuit Health Branch, Health Canada.
    Scherr, S. and Reinemann, C. (2011). Belief in a Werther Effect: Third-person effects in the perceptions of suicide risk for others and the moderating role of depression. Suicide and Life-Threatening Behavior, 41(6), 624-634.
    Westerlund, M., Schaller, S. and Schmidtke, A. (2009).The role of mass-media in suicide prevention. In Wasserman, D. and Wasserman, C.   (Eds), Oxford Textbook of Suicidology and Suicide Prevention: A global perspective (pp.515-525). Oxford, UK: Oxford University Press.
    Zenere, F. (2009). Suicide clusters and contagion. Principal Leadership, 10(2), 12-16.

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    Missing Someone at Christmas

    The other day I spent six hours on my feet learning to bake from a mother who has lost a son this year to suicide.  She invited me over and I couldn't be more happier with her hospitality. She truly picked 3 cookie recopies that were traditional and delicious. I think the key is patience. She had the tiniest of cookie cutters... I suppose to give way to the ginger cookies rising from the baking soda. My cookie cutters were 5 times the size of hers... so I will be now shopping for the tiny cutters. Life got so busy before Deborah passing that I often just bought the cookies. Now with a grand baby on the way I think us girls will be more inclined to do some actual baking. I wish I could share the cookies with you. One had an egg white and walnut moose on the top, the others were little ginger cookies with a walnut slice on the top. The others were moon crescents that were also dusted with icing sugar.
    I don't believe we will have a white Christmas here by the Lower Mainland of British Columbia Canada. Sadly, we don't have snow tires so we cannot go up to the mountains to enjoy the snow. I am reminded of all the years of tobogganing, cross-country skiing, and snowshoeing with the children. They were avid snow plowers also. I made sure we had several shovels so everyone can assist with the sidewalk and driveway shovelling.  I will never forget Deborah's rosy cheeks, and how she built snowmen with her sisters. Now fading memories except for some pictures I have to dig out. One of her friends works in Miami, and will not be coming back for Christmas. It is going to be difficult without them visiting us.
    One of the songs that was sung at Willingdon Church last night was in honor of those we loved, and how Christmas will be very sad without them. Our only comfort is knowing that they are in the arms of Jesus, and that we will one day see them.. In the twinkling of an eye we shall be changed and be like them. Ohh how I can't wait for that day.

    Wednesday, December 12, 2018

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    Iceland: 12 Rules for Life Tour: Lecture 1

    This man is incredible.. God bless him and keep him safe to bring many to healing within.

    Jordan Peterson: Secrets to life and relationships

    "The answer to the problem of humanity is the integrity of the individual." Jordan Peterson

    The Word of truth-Rightly Dividing New Gospel??

    2 Timothy 2:15 Wycliffe Bible (WYC)

    15 Busily keep [Busily care, or keep,] to give thyself an approved, praiseable workman to God, without shame, rightly treating the word of truth. 


    2 Timothy 2:15 Darby Translation (DARBY)

    15 Strive diligently to present thyself approved to God, a workman that has not to be ashamed, cutting in a straight line the word of truth.

    2 Timothy 2:15 American Standard Version (ASV)

    15 Give diligence to present thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, [a]handling aright the word of truth. 


    I just want to make you aware that there seems to be a new gospel being taught that we are to rightly DIVIDE the Word of Truth.. per the King James version of 2 Timothy 2;15.. They say that certain gospels are for the gentiles, and certain writings are strictly for the jews!!! I want to alert and warn my readers that if you look into other translations, the meaning of the verse reveals itself.. God is not a God of division! BEWARE!!! People are getting tickling ears and fall off the horse yet another time with false teachings.. Jesus came to fulfill the commandments, God does not change. What if you don't even know if you are Jew or Gentile??? Remember my friend Stephen Steinman who only found out that he was Jewish in his 50's?? Please pray for him, as he seems to have disappeared from the face of this world.  

    Freedom - Josh Garrels (Live in Houston, TX 2015)

    Pressing On by Attending Suicide Pot Luck Dinner

    This past Friday, we attended our suicide pot luck/ bless dinner at Valley View funeral home where Deborah is burried. There was a small group this year, but even so it was refreshing to see some familiar faces. We shared about our favorite Christmas memories, and coping skills on how to get over the holiday slump. There was emphasis on self-care and just reflecting on how those soccer boys in the cave got out after many days. We too will get out of our darkness, and be in the presence of our dear Saviour one day. Our hardship and struggles will finally end in victory if we love the LORD, AND CLING TO HIM.
    Our suffering here is short term.

    Catching Up/Woodward's Displays

    I have been trying to get things done that need my attention. I am getting a new glass frame as I have my allotted insurance coverage as of the middle of the month. I got new batteries put in my husband's watch, so he can tell the time. This watch is very meaningful to him, since he received it as an inheritance after his dad passed. I have purchased five shirts that were on sale, for Christmas gifts, including one dark red with tiny black checkers for my husband. This is his only reddish shirt, but will look amazing on him since he is fair skinned and as a boy had fire engine red hair. Deborah, my youngest who is now  with the Lord has inherited his porcelain skin. I am thinking of donating Deborah's graduation dress to the upcoming year's graduates. It would be nice for someone to have a beautiful dress on their grad.
    I have washed my wooden clothes pins, swept the last of the fall leaves that fell off the trees, organized the presents that still needed wrapping, and platted the Christmas cookies for friends. I have cleaned my storage closets, and washed the deck only to have the racoon s leave their paw prints.
    Tomorrow, I want to find a scratch post in a second hand store for the indoor/outdoor cat Tiger. I will also look for wool blankets, cast iron pans and whatever specialty item I may find. The best time to go is in the morning once the items are restocked in the morning.  Ohh, and did I mention:  I went to several church bazaars and purchased tea towels, baby items all hand knitted, and many things that are not found in shopping malls. I will not be ordering things on line, especially since the postman is still dealing with the overwhelming parcels still undelivered since their strike initiative. Shopping is good therapy apparently for those who are grieving and struggling, so even window shopping may help. The old Wodward's Exhibits are also out for viewing at Canada Place, this year. Perhaps it would be nice to go and see them. I recall, Ron and I and the four girls would go to New Westminster to see all these beautiful displays around Christmas time. Ohh how I wish our family was still together! Missing one is like missing a part of your body. Image result for woodward's display christmas image
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    Thank you for your Comments!!

    Dear Readers, I am so thankful for you. You probably know that I have had a very big dry spell over the last several months, due to several reasons... But you have so much encouraged me with your comments as of late!! I have not been reading my comments for some time, and must direct more attention to them, as I feel that I am making a difference in the lives of  many. I was very uncertain of my role as of late, and with your approval, I will try to continue to make this blog educational, entertaining, and hopefully a huge deterrent to anyone contemplating the very thought of ending a life.
    Today, I visited an old retired doctor. He has become my friend over the last five years. He is taking chelatian theraphy as one of the last resorts to bettering his health. He has suffered from depression since the age of 11, and now he is 84. Perhaps this is his last Christmas, but it may be mine as well, we never know. So, I just want to thank you for being so dear to me, and encouraging one another to hang in there. Tomorrow is a new day! We need each other !! Thank you for your comments, and let's be near to the heart of one another, as we listen, and be present for those who are frail. I love you all so much. Thank you

    China won't stop flood of fentanyl into Canada, sources say

    China won’t stop flood of fentanyl into Canada, sources say

    The opioid crisis and record-setting death counts caused by fentanyl flooding into Canada could get worse because of a growing diplomatic dispute with China, sources have informed Global News.
    Canadian law enforcement agencies have found that fentanyl and its chemical precursors are mostly produced in southern China factories and sent to North America via shipping containers, and in the mail.
    WATCH ABOVE: A Global News investigation has uncovered new details about how Canada’s fentanyl crisis has evolved

    In public, Canada’s federal government claims there is co-operation with China in the fight against fentanyl. It isn’t politically feasible for Ottawa to openly criticize Beijing on the opioid crisis, especially as the two governments pursue deeper trade ties.
    But behind the scenes, sources say frustration is growing over China’s inaction.
    “This is a very hot issue diplomatically right now,” a source with knowledge of international policing said.
    MORE: Read the full Fentanyl investigation
    The situation has gone from bad to worse, after Canada recently turned down China’s request to insert a new police liaison officer in China’s Vancouver consulate.
    “It’s a huge fight with China right now, and if you anger the Chinese they won’t work with you,” said a source, who could not be identified. “The fentanyl coming into Canada is going to get worse. Nothing will happen because we have to satisfy what they (the Chinese government) want.”
    Responding to questions from Global News following the G20 summit on Saturday, Prime Minister Justin Trudeau maintained that China is cooperating with Canada on the fentanyl crisis.
    “China has been actually working with Canadian officials and Canadian law enforcement over the past months, to take measures on the flow of fentanyl into Canada.  There is, obviously as you say, more to do, we recognize that this is a crisis that is continuing in Canada and indeed getting worse,” Trudeau said.
    What China wants, is freedom in B.C. to pursue alleged corruption suspects and financial fugitives, including a suspect accused of absconding with about $1 billion from a Beijing company. The suspect is laundering the money in Vancouver real estate, a source said, and using Vancouver as a hub to launder dirty money around the world.
    READ MORE: Secret police study finds crime networks could have laundered over $1B through Vancouver homes in 2016
    China’s request to send a police liaison to Vancouver was rejected by Canada’s department of Global Affairs because of national security concerns, according to a source.
    The concern is the police liaison could have worked for China’s Ministry of State Security, which is the non-military agency responsible for China’s counter-intelligence, foreign intelligence and political security operations.
    “There are cases where people come to Canada working for the Ministry of State Security,” a source said.
    It is not known what triggered Canada’s suspicion in this case, but reportedly, the so-called Five Eyes intelligence countries, including Canada, Australia, and the U.S., have recently increased information sharing on China’s alleged foreign influence, investment and spying campaigns.
    Global News requested interviews with Global Affairs officials regarding the diplomatic dispute but the requests were declined.
    A brief prepared statement did not address or refute the alleged case.
    “Canadian and Chinese authorities continue to work together on law enforcement and legal-judicial issues, including fentanyl and opioids,” Global Affairs spokesman Guillaume Bérubé wrote.
    WATCH: ‘It’s murder’: How lethal opioids devastated a small region of Ontario
    Global News repeatedly contacted officials in China’s embassies in Ottawa and Vancouver to ask questions for this story, but was unable to obtain responses.
    In an interview, Conservative critic for foreign affairs Erin O’Toole said “We have people dying. And if they are slow to crack down on production facilities that are perpetuating this horrible drug … the very fact that China might be dragging its feet on investigating and shutting down production facilities in Mainland China, is deeply concerning. And we should raise it at the highest level.”
    And regarding the allegation that China is seeking diplomatic concessions from Canada in order to crack down on fentanyl exports, O’Toole said: “There should be no diplomatic quid pro quo. There are lives at stake here.”
    Meanwhile, Senator Vern White, a former Ottawa police chief, said Canada should take punitive trade actions if China will not act to stem fentanyl arriving in North America from state-regulated factories in China.
    “China has shown no willingness to stop this,” White said in an interview. White said his colleagues in the United States tell him they are concerned about fentanyl from China flowing south through B.C.
    “Imagine if we were producing fentanyl in factories and sending it into the U.S.,” White said.
    It is not just China’s lack of action on fentanyl imports that is hindering Canadian efforts to crack down on illicit opioid supply. Police experts interviewed by Global News say that Canada doesn’t have the human resources or aggressive policing strategies needed to mount complicated transnational organized crime investigations.
    READ MORE: Fentanyl kings in Canada allegedly linked to powerful Chinese gang, the Big Circle Boys
    Veterans in drug-trafficking investigations say that Canadian privacy and court procedure time limits also tend to severely limit pursuit of international criminals in Canada, in comparison to investigations by United States and Australian federal police.
    Sources have said that Canadian police must file hundreds of pages of evidence in order to get phone intercepts for suspected drug kingpins approved by judges. But in the U.S., they say, such processes require much less paperwork and a more practical standard of evidence.
    Australia and United States federal forces also have anti-drug trafficking policing operations in China that the RCMP lacks, sources said.
    As a result of these weaknesses, U.S. investigators and officials are expressing frustration with the limits of Canadian law enforcement, and concern about the growing reach of Chinese organized crime in B.C., an official confirmed to Global News. And the U.S. has established a significant number of federal law and drug enforcement officers in the U.S.’s Vancouver consulate, multiple sources confirmed.
    WATCH: Growing calls for public inquiry into deadly fentanyl
    Christine Duhaime, an anti-money laundering lawyer in Vancouver, said she recognizes the United States government is increasingly watching Chinese criminal networks in B.C.
    “With the fentanyl crisis, and Vancouver being ground zero with imports from China paid with Bitcoin from unregulated exchanges, the U.S. government is concerned about Vancouver,” Duhaime said. “The fact that Vancouver has emerged as a safe haven for proceeds of crime is even more concerning.”
    Tension between China and Canada over police agents is not a new phenomenon.
    In the most famous case, agents claiming to be Chinese businessmen falsely obtained visas to enter B.C., and conducted covert operations in Richmond in pursuit of China’s most-wanted criminal, Lai Changxing. Lai was a billionaire smuggler and organized crime associate with ties to drug-trafficking and police and military officials in southern China, court records and sources say.
    When a bribery and corruption case escalated in China, Lai fled to Hong Kong, and gained entry to Canada under immigrant investor status. He was a prolific VIP gambler in Richmond, associated to notorious loan sharks, and Big Circle Boys associates in British Columbia and Ontario, court records allege.
    After a 12-year legal and diplomatic battle over China’s efforts to extradite Lai, a deal was struck in which China promised that Lai would not be executed if he was returned to face prosecution. He was sent to China in 2011 and imprisoned.
    There are conflicting reports in China about Lai’s current condition.
    “In accordance with the legal terms/parameters of Mr. Lai’s return to China, as outlined in the Federal Court Decision of 2011, as well as diplomatic assurances received at the time, Canadian officials have been monitoring Mr. Lai’s situation, pursuant to the assurances provided and in cooperation with Chinese officials,” Global Affairs stated, in response to questions about Lai’s health.
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